Nasty is the new normal

From nasty replies to social media posts to fingers out the window and statements like “okay boomer,” our society has melted into a constant stream of insults.  Rudeness seems to be the norm.  But this shouldn’t be the way of those who follow Jesus.  Instead, we should be the exception to the norm.

“Fools show their annoyance at once, but the prudent overlook an insult,” Proverbs 12:16.

It’s comments like this that make the study and implementation of Proverbs a daunting task.  Who isn’t convicted by the challenge to overlook offense and not allow others to frustrate? 

Let’s look at the life of Jesus as our example.  When he was ridiculed and even spat upon he showed extreme self-control.  He did not say a single word in response.  When he did finally speak he said, “father forgive them.”   He overlooked offense and was not easily flustered.  How?  How could he put up with those who called him a son of the devil and a blasphemer?

Jesus didn’t have Paxil. Nor did he bottle up his frustration for a future blow up.  He simply didn’t let others affect him negatively.  He never allowed someone to control him.  Nothing would push him away from his purpose.  Messiah embodied the Proverbs by overlooking insults.  He looked past the people’s faults and saw their needs. 

When others are rude, insulting, or just mean it’s usually because something has happened in the past that has caused them pain.  Hurt people hurt people.  Even children act in revenge if they can’t get attention in a positive manner.

If you keep this in mind you will have pity and compassion on those who seek to offend.  Don’t show your annoyance, instead show your wisdom by being patient.