Annoyed or at Peace?

“Fools show their annoyance at once, but the prudent overlook an insult,” Proverbs 12:16.

Isn’t it amazing how these ancient words have modern meaning? 

In today’s world of instant retaliation its easy to create a social media massacre with just a few clicks or corse comments.  The challenge to overlook offense and not allow others to frustrate is daunting. But it can be done. And it should be done.

Let’s look to the last few hours in the life of Jesus for an example.  When Jesus was ridiculed and even spat upon he showed extreme self-control.  He did not say a word as he was whipped and beaten.  As nails were driven into his flesh he didn’t curse. When he finally spoke he said, “father forgive them.”  He overlooked offense.  How?  How could he put up with those who hurled insults and threw punches?

Jesus didn’t have a chill pill. Nor did he bottle up his frustration for a future blow up.

He simply didn’t let others affect him negatively.  He never allowed someone to control him by pushing him away from his purpose.  Jesus overlooked insults.

Messiah embodied this proverb. He looked past the people’s faults and saw their needs. 

When others are rude, insulting, or just mean it’s usually because something has happened in their past that has caused them pain.  Hurt people hurt people.  Even children act in revenge if they can’t get attention in a positive manner.  The behavior of other people is not in your direct control. What is in your control is your own peace and your own reaction. Hurts are going to come and people are going to take advantage of you. It is prudence to not return blow for blow or show your annoyance. Instead of reacting in anger or hurt, learn from this proverb and look past the pain.  Compassion gives others the gentleness we desire to experience ourselves.

Don’t show your immediate annoyance. Instead, show your wisdom by being patient.